As the season shifts and Palm Beach begins to buzz, the art of hosting takes center stage. From the Italian post-dinner Passeggiata to the Middle Eastern tradition of sending guests off with food, these globally inspired touches will give your next event standout status.
1. Partake in La Passeggiata
La passeggiata is an Italian tradition of a leisurely evening stroll, taken before or after dinner, where people walk through town squares or along promenades to unwind, socialize, and savor the simple pleasures of life. To incorporate this ritual, set aside 20 minutes for a scenic walk, invite friends or loved ones, and be fully present in the moment. It’s the perfect way to slow down, disconnect from screens, and end the day with relaxation and connection.
2. Engage your guests with a Pettegolezzi Jar
The Pettegolezzi Jar is an Italian tradition where guests collect and share juicy gossip and intriguing tidbits. The term “pettegolezzi” means “gossip” in English, and this jar adds a playful touch to your gatherings. Guests can anonymously contribute funny anecdotes or little-known facts, creating a buzz of interaction and entertainment.
To incorporate this into your event, place a jar at the entrance for guests to fill with their contributions before receiving their welcome drink. Alternatively, ask them to submit their gossip or fun facts with their RSVP, starting the party with a full jar. Throughout the evening, draw from the jar at set intervals—like when the bartender opens a new bottle of wine or between courses. Have the host or a designated guest read the contents aloud to spark laughter and lively conversation. The pettepgolezzzi jar can also be a fun way to facilitate #3…
3. Stay a While: La Sobremesa
La Sobremesa is a beloved tradition from Spain and Latin America where the meal extends beyond the last bite, focusing on lingering at the table to nurture conversation and connection. Keep the table as the heart of the evening by bringing wine service to the table, having bartenders take drink orders, or serving coffee alongside a selection of digestifs and liqueurs.
Delay the arrival of the dessert platter to maintain a relaxed pace, and use that time to introduce a variety of games around which groups can gather for friendly competition and lively interaction. La Sobremesa transforms your dinner party into a memorable, effortless affair that leaves your guests deeply connected and thoroughly satisfied.
4. Celebrate throughout the evening with Nomikai Style Toasting
Nomikai is a cherished Japanese tradition where colleagues, friends, or family gather for informal drinking parties, celebrating with multiple toasts throughout the evening.
Bring the spirit of Nomikai to your Palm Beach dinner party by encouraging guests to make small toasts throughout the evening. Add a playful twist with the “Nomikai Challenge.“
Prepare small, elegantly designed tokens with phrases like “Cheers!” or “Toast Time!” and discreetly place them on guests’ plates, in napkins, or in small envelopes at their seats. When a token is discovered, it signals the time for a toast. The guest with the token stands up and delivers a toast based on themes or prompts, such as “to friendship” or “to the evening’s host.” Cheers to camaraderie and connection!
5. Stimulate conversation with a modern twist on French Salon Discussion Cards
Inspired by the renowned intellectual salons of 17th and 18th century France, where thinkers gathered to exchange ideas. Create discussion cards to prompt playful conversations and amusing exchanges.
Place a set of cards at each place setting, inviting guests to draw one during the cheese course or dessert to spark lively conversations.
For an extra layer of enjoyment, introduce a “Debate Dais.” Here, guests can engage in informal, humorous debates on light-hearted topics like Palm Beach fashion, favorite travel destinations, or playful comparisons such as “Nantucket vs. Martha’s Vineyard” and “Aspen vs. Sun Valley.” Provide amusing topics and props like mini gavels to keep the discussions lively and entertaining. This setup adds a delightful touch to your evening, ensuring your dinner party is stimulating and enjoyable.
6. Mix & Mingle with French Flair: the Apéro Dînatoire
Bring together the social spontaneity of a cocktail hour with the satisfaction of a full dinner. Instead of serving as a mere prelude to a meal like a traditional cocktail party, the Apéro Dinatoire takes center stage as the evening’s main event, offering a continuous flow of substantial dishes and drinks.
Spanning 2-4 hours, this French gathering format presents a satisfying array of gourmet dishes in a setting that encourages mingling, creating a complete dining experience. Think cheeses, charcuterie, tarts, quiches, crostinis, delectable dips, and of course, baguette baskets for every activation! Casual elegance and culinary delight—so French!
7. Wrap it up (literally) with the Middle Eastern tradition of Taking Food to Go
Inspired by the Middle Eastern custom of never sending guests home empty-handed, conclude your Palm Beach dinner party with a memorable “take it to go” experience. Whether you offer pre-packed leftovers presented swag bag style or set up a self-serve station where guests can personalize their picks, this thoughtful gesture provides a flavor-filled finale that adds a delightful touch to the evening (and food for later—#yesplease!).
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8. A Feast for All Eyes and Every Palate: the Indonesian Tumpeng
Tumpeng, an Indonesian culinary masterpiece, symbolizes joy and respect. This striking cone-shaped rice dish is traditionally served at joyous occasions and presented with various side dishes. As part of the tradition, the top of the cone is ceremoniously cut and offered to a guest of honor as a gesture of gratitude.
Not only does Tumpeng serve as a stunning focal point, but it also offers incredible flexibility. Customize it with flavors to suit any palate, from traditional Indonesian sides to Mediterranean-inspired roasted vegetables or Latin American spiced meats. For a special touch, include a ceremonial moment by cutting and sharing the top of the cone to honor a guest, adding a memorable and symbolic element to your gathering.
9. Dinner and a Show: Hibachi at Home
Equal parts exciting spectacle and gourmet cuisine, a hibachi dinner is a guaranteed hit—especially when you bring this vibrant experience to your Palm Beach home! Witness the chef’s skillful performance, featuring impressive knife work, fiery tricks, and interactive cooking right before your eyes. With the chef managing the heat and guests tailoring their dishes to their preferences, you can sit back, unwind, and enjoy the show (literally).
10. An Edible Encore: the Spanish“Recena”
As the night progresses and your guests are still buzzing, surprise them with an edible encore, inspired by the Spanish tradition of “recena.” Serve up comfort food classics like mini sandwiches, sliders, and truffle French fries. Whether you set up a station or pass these treats around, this unexpected touch will revitalize your guests, adding a memorable highlight to your event and keeping the energy high as the evening unfolds.
11. The Ultimate Melt Down: the Swiss Raclette Dinner
A cold front calls for comfort food (even in Palm Beach!), and there’s no better choice than a traditional Swiss Raclette dinner! Once a humble Alpine peasant meal, raclette has evolved into a cherished Swiss cultural classic that brings warmth and conviviality to any table.
Dating back to the 13th century, raclette started as a simple dish of melted cheese scraped over potatoes. Today, it’s a social feast centered around a communal grill or heat lamp. Each guest gets their own mini grill plate to melt cheese and cook an array of meats and vegetables right at the table, making the experience interactive and engaging.
For an authentic touch, serve classic accompaniments like viande séchée (dried cured meat), cornichons, and pearl onions. Fun fact: skip the water (it can make the cheese firm up) and opt for wine or tea to perfectly complement the melted cheese.
12. Fromage Before the Finale: the French Intermédiaire
Indulge your Palm Beach guests with a classic French cheese course… when they least expect it. In French culture, this cheese course serves as a savory pause that refreshes the palate and sets the stage for a sweet finish. It’s an elegant way to extend the dining experience (sobremesa, anyone?), allowing guests to savor rich flavors and enjoy a touch of French tradition before transitioning to dessert.
Curate a selection of Brie, Roquefort, and Comté, and serve with fresh baguette slices, seasonal fruits, and artisanal jams or nuts for a touch of flair.
13. The Caviar Tasting: Russian Roots, French Finery
Originally a Russian tradition, caviar tastings were once grand affairs with lavish banquet tables full of accompaniments. The refined French approach, however, allows for a deeper exploration of the delicacy, requiring nothing more than the caviar itself, in its purest form.
A side-by-side tasting of two or ideally three exceptional caviar varieties provides your guests with a rare opportunity to experience textures and flavors in unprecedented detail. Enhance this experience by pairing the caviar with a selection of wines, scotches, or craft beers, adding another layer of discovery as guests explore how each variety interacts with different beverages. Perfect for an intimate soirée, a sophisticated birthday celebration, or a polished pre-game element, this tasting combines luxury with interactive enjoyment. We provide the caviar, tasting cards, and a guide to ensure every moment is savored to the fullest.
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14. & 15. Around the Pool Picks for Celebrations Under the Sun
A soup
Chill out with a Cold Soup Station featuring a selection of European classics and unique global options. Treat your guests to chilled soups like Gazpacho (Spain), Vichyssoise—a creamy French blend of leeks and potatoes—or a smooth Carrot Ginger Soup with a touch of Asian flair. Serve these in elegant shooters or set up a self-serve station for added convenience.
… and a sandwich
Pair your soups with a Baguette Station that perfectly complements your offerings. Surprise your guests with European-inspired baguette sandwiches like Jambon-Beurre (ham and butter with cornichons), Smoked Salmon with cream cheese, or Prosciutto & Brie with fig jam. Present these in a chic grab-and-go format with pre-cut halves or thirds in a beautifully lined wicker basket. Alternatively, create a DIY Baguette Bar where guests can build their own tasty creations.
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